Mother's Day

Well- things have been so busy over here that I haven't updated on my Mother's Day. On Saturday, I went out with my sister for several hours. When I got home, Ben had worked really hard on a flower garden in the back yard for me. I was so shocked! He put a Columbine, Day Lilies, Morning Glories and Snap Dragons in it. He even let me be the first to water it!

On Monday I came home from work to find that Riley dug a lot of my flower garden up. The dirt was everywhere and the remains of the flowers were all over the grass. The Columbine and Day Lilies remained but everything else was pretty much gone. When I told Ben I could hear the defeat in his voice. I felt really bad and that dog can be so destructive!!!! I will fix it when we get back from California and replace the flowers that Riley dug up. My flower garden is still beautiful..It just has some empty spots. I told Ben that it was the thought that counted but I'm not sure that helped him any.

Work changes

Well the time has come that I have to make some hard decisions about my job. It is a real possibility that they may close my department. This puts me in a position where I have to pick another counseling position-none of which are my #1 choices. All of them are a pay cut which is hard since Ben already got one this year. However, the shift that works best for us (not necessarily the hours but the least amount of a pay cut) is a 4 day work week working 3-12 Mondays, Tuesdays and Fridays and 9-5 on Sundays. This will still allow me to have various appointments during the day and fits in with my plan to begin my Masters program in late summer as classes are Thursday nights. Plus, I'll still have two days off with Ben-Wednesdays and Saturdays. I have a meeting with the supervisor for this position when she returns from vacation. This will probably be somewhat of a quick transition-even before the final decision is made about Day Treatment. One of the hardest things about this-aside from my coveted schedule is that I wont be working with Becky anymore. We've worked together day after day for the last 4 years and have become such great friends. I know that we will remain friends long after this job but it's still hard not having her there with me.

Lupus walk

I've decided that I'm going to do the 5k Lupus walk this year at Washington Park. I have never done it before but really wanted to last year-it just didn't work out. So far, I've registered and set up our team's page. If you aren't familiar with my Lupus story you can read about it at:

http://donate.lupus.org/goto/MadalinesMessage

Once there click on my name and my page will appear.


XOXO